SPC 11.05.92 - 08.19.20
Tributes
My memories of Stuart are from when he was around 10 years old, and lived down the street in Fairhope. He would drop by unannounced all the time and just hang out. One time during a hurricane, he snuck into our house when we weren’t home and used my camcorder to take video of himself playing my guitar. I didn’t know this until I went through the tape later. He was the pesky little brother I always wanted and I loved him like one. We didn’t stay in touch after I left, but I’m so glad I got to go to his wedding. Stu, little buddy, thanks for keeping the Sabo women on our toes so many years ago. We love you. You’re in my heart.
Jessica Sabo
I will always remember Stuart for his consistent kindness and his spirit of adventure to branch out and do something he knew was a better fit in his career. He will be missed. I so enjoyed chatting with him at work.
Kim C
Stu, you were one of a kind, man. Whether it was our almost daily walks (pre-covid) to talk about our days at work, our trips to Chopt, our study sessions at Lipscomb, or our pickup games at the Y against high schoolers, I always enjoyed my time with you, bro. I always felt like I could tell you everything and not have any doubt in the world that it would stay between us and that you actually cared about what we were talking about. I'm going to miss those conversations and miss my bro even more. The last time I saw you, we went on a run at the Greenway and we were talking about running the St Jude's half in November together. I'll make sure to bust ass for you and try not to get another foot infection (still don't know how that happened when we ran). You were one of my first friends when I moved to Nashville and started at LBMC and I won't ever forget that. We spent some long nights in Corning, NY eating Taco Bell at 9pm at a client in subzero temperatures, had 8 hour days at Lipscomb and Vandy studying while chugging coffees, and countless hours taking walks around Brentwood during the work day just shooting the shit and talking about anything on our minds. I'll miss all those times and I'll be there for any time that Becca needs a funny story about you. You were a great friend and I'll miss you, broski.
Kris Kawalski
Stuart always had a way of making me smile at work even when we were both stranded auditing in Sparta, TN. I particularly loved how excited he got for Pie Wednesday at O'Charlie's that week. Stuart was also the only person who would trash talk Alabama football and not get me angry. I will miss him and always cherish my time with him.
Will Ferrelli
I remember when I met Stuart 7 years ago. He was so funny, and always kept me laughing. Stuart LOVED to have a good time and I embraced that energy so much. I remember one moment specifically I had brought Becca to a party with me and I remember Stuart pulling me away to privately tell me that Becca was the prettiest girl he had ever laid eyes on. Stuart started out as my friend and quickly became my best friends, best friend. Becca and Stuart I love you both so very much and will hold both of you so close to my heart. Becca you were and always will be Stuart’s angel.
Taylor Kirk
Stuart and I started our Nashville accounting careers together. We were the same level and I’m naturally competitive so I always looked up to Stu. He was always on time for work, always challenging himself, looking to improve things, and above all he always always always had a positive attitude, which is what I admired most about him. He pushed me to be a better version of myself at work and he always made working those long hours fun. We used to sit at our cubes after hours and throw a nerf football across the room, trying to knock off a stuffed cat someone had sitting on the top of their cube; or play “closing time” on the speakers when everyone was staying too late; or play pranks on David. I’m grateful for all he taught me and for the time I got to spend with the both of you!
Chelsea Moser
My family and I went to Yellowstone National Park earlier this summer. When we got back Stuart asked how it was and I told him it was great, but I was disappointed I didn't get to see the one animal I've never seen in my visits to Yellowstone - a moose. In our next several conversations Stuart would always end it reminding me not to worry, because I'll "see one of those meese one day".
Jessica (McAlister) Anderson
Some mornings I would ask Stuart what I should listen to that day, and he would pick a random spotify playlist. Usually it was something like "Mood Booster" or "Have a Great Day", but everyone once in awhile he would make me regret asking and I'd have to listen to "Rap Caviar" or "Viva Latino".
Jessica (McAlister) Anderson
I worked with Stuart in the audit department. One of my first memories of Stuart was sitting in a conference room together waiting for a meeting to start. We had only worked together for a few days so I didn't know much about him yet. Our senior manager came in the room, sat down, and proceeded to tell Stuart how he needed to be a little more professional. She said clients were complaining, and he needed to work on his attitude and try to be a little more respectful and enjoyable to be around. He smiled and apologized for his behavior. Not knowing Stuart, I was so uncomfortable and could not believe that conversation just happened with me in the room. A few minutes later I found out that the conversation was all an obvious joke because he was getting so many positive comments from clients and co-workers. During our time working together, I came to know Stuart as respectful, kind, and encouraging. We were working together for about 4 weeks in February 2020 before the pandemic hit - in the middle of busy season on a difficult client. There were days that one or both of us were stressed and tired. During that time, Stuart and I talked about how life can be difficult. He told me about how he had started spending time every morning with God. I noticed he had placed notes with scripture and encouraging words on his computer. At some point during those 4 weeks, when one of us would let out a big sigh or look stressed, the other would say "It's still a good day", to remind each other even when the days are long and stressful, we're still blessed by God. There's a song currently playing on my Spotify playlist called "The Father's House", and my prayer for Stuart's friends and family would be that even on tough days we can say "It's still a good day" until the best day comes when we'll see him again in The Father's House.
Jessica (McAlister) Anderson
Stu!!! You will be missed man. I’m so sad that you’re gone. I will miss our conversations about life and family just as much as your silly personality. You were a great friend and colleague and you truly did reverence the Lord. I’m so glad we had lunch a few weeks back. I wanted to celebrate your promotion, but you just wanted to catch up on how I was doing. I wish I had listened more than talking now. See you again one day buddy.
Becca - You showed great strength today. I pray that you will take the time to grieve on your own terms.
David Middlebrook
Becca, I am a friend of Dona’s, one of the Beach Babes, and I remember when “Stu-Bug” was born. He was adorable and loved by so many! He and his mom came and stayed with us in SC (I live in Greenville) when he was around 12-ish?? I remember he was SO SWEET to my 3 yr old. We were all just swinging on our front porch swing together and he was making Jack laugh. I think Dona was taking him on a mission trip (not 100% on that). She prayed SO MUCH GOOD into those boys and she enlisted us to pray so much that we used to affectionately call her a “Prayer Hog”!! (We all have been called a Prayer Hog before, because we are women who have been through a few things, and have only made it through because of the prayers of our loving friends!). We are forever grateful to Dona because she was the instigator of the very first Beach Babe weekend 25 years ago and it is a support system and sisterhood like no other. We have been praying for you long before you ever met Stuart, through your courtship and wedding and we will never stop. What you said today was so beautiful and profound that it changed me. You are an incredible person. Jesus has you in the palm of His hand and we will continue to keep you close in our hearts and prayers.
Debi Ponder
Stuart you used to sit right in front of me while in Tax and you used to scare me often, I’d scream and then we would both laugh about it. Before you went to Audit, you wrote me a note “Prepaid Bless Yous” for all the times I’d sneeze and you won’t be there to say it. Thank you! You will be missed! Rest in Peace, you were a wonderful guy!
Wafa Hindiyeh
From working dozens of late nights during tax season together, multiple rounds of golf, and going out on the town together, Stuart you were nothing but a great friend who will be missed. Becca I am so sorry for your loss, Stu was one of a kind who enjoyed life to the fullest, and I will always remember him as a great guy and friend.
Nathan Wilhite
It was a pleasure to enjoy this delightful young man. Though our quantity of time with Stuart was limited, the quality of time was not. God Bless You Young Man RIP.
Thomas M Cooper
OUR dearest Becca , Polly , David, Hanna , and entire family, We are just devastated over hearing of the passing of Stuart, our hearts are full of tears and our LOVE FOR YOU ALL IS FOREVER! , PLEASE KNOW OUR PRAYERS AND ARMS ARE AROUND YOU AND WE ARE WITH YOU IN SPIRIT TOMARROW! WHATEVER YOU NEED JUST SAY! YOUR SWEET LOVE WILL SHINE FOREVER! OUR LOVE , THE PAUL MATTHEWS FAMILY, FRANKFORT,KY! GODS LOVE !
Kathy Matthews